A Chosen Covergirl: Feature

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What comes to mind when you think of the word “joy”? 

The word joy… it’s about life … to be happy from the inside and out… keeping a smile on your face.

What does it means to be confident? 

To be active in who you are…to be sure in your gifts…to be driven in your thoughts.

Can you identify the time in your life when you began to totally accept yourself and all of your flaws?

To be honest it was only the last decade of my life. I began to accept who I am, how I was made up from others raising me, and how I was made up from my environment from growing up. I believe that all of my flaws didn’t mean that I wasn’t perfect or there was something wrong with me, but it was just a flaw. And in relationships and friendships those are things we have to either accept from another person or it could be a deal breaker.

What do you admire most about yourself? 

15 years ago I lost my husband and I just had my daughter while I was living in a state with no family. It was one of the hardest things I had to deal with to move forward, but it was because of my faith that I’m still here. It was because of my faith that I’m still in my right mind and I’m thankful.

What would you tell your younger self or someone who has yet to discover her worth? 

I would tell my younger self to take your time, to be patient with exactly who you are. When you begin to enjoy the journey, you begin to know yourself and that’s when you can discover your self-worth. Be confident in who you are and allow yourself to know your flaws and walk in your own truth.

If you could identify a celebrity who you believe exemplifies a Chosen Covergirl, who would that be and why?

It would be Mary J Blige. We all have a story to tell and her life journey has been amazing, good and bad.

About our Featured Chosen Covergirl: Tanisha Simpkins is a radio host, ministry leader, momprener and a woman of many talents. She enjoys being of service to all mankind. An empowerment champion through her speaking, media appearances, business coaching, mentoring and helping people become empowered despite their past and mistakes is her passion. She enjoys serving the community through outreach initiatives and organizations she supports.

Tanisha Simpkins currently works as a publicist in media and entertainment based in South Florida and Atlanta. She has a 16 year-old daughter who is a gifted student of aerospace. Tanisha is a member of Community Christian Church In Tamarac, Fl. You can connect with Tanisha on all social media platforms with @tanishasimpkinsent and her website: www.tanishasimpkinsenterprises.com.

A Chosen Covergirl lives life full of joy, confidence, and faith, because she knows who she is and to WHOM she belongs. She does not require validation by man because she knows that she has already been approved by God.  In other words, she knows her worth! With the Lord on her side, she walks with confidence believing that she has the power within her to conquer every obstacle that tries to hinder her from her destiny.

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Love On a One Way street

So you thought everything was going well then to find yourself on a one way street of love. You know the kind when you’re doing all the giving of affection. The kind when you’re making all the calls. The kind when you only hear your voice of encouragement. The kind of love when you start to feel lonely. Finally you say, ” I give up”

That can be exhausting, these are the people who only like to celebrate themselves, have you feeling only their job or career is more important, and those who are too busy for love.

When you find yourself on a One Way Street of Love , you can pull to the side and allow them to make a U-turn to your side of the street then cruise together or  keep it moving.

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You have to know when to hold and know when to fold

imagesCAMXMRHRWe can continue in a relationship thinking it would get better or change in our favor. When someone tells you something the first time, Believe them.

That’s our problem we don’t want to believe what they say and redefine their words. If you want more from a situation or relationship either put demands on it or move forward.

Being in a position of knowing who you are, why waste time.

If you ready to start a family or continue a family and your mate is still saying “friends” its time to throw that hand in ‘Fold’

If you have a desire to introduce yourself to someone …. throw fear away and do it

If any situation is not what you want, why settle to keep face. Write your own story, if that means using the eraser to wipe out some things or persons do it.

If you have something good, both agree what the future holds, those making an effort in your relationship ” Hold’Em’

Play with the hand you’re given, responsibly