The best thing you could do for a friend whose heart is hurting is pray With them and the best thing you can do for yourself is pray
One of the most things that breaks or hurts my heart is disappointment. Because I expect others to be honest and open like myself when they fail I’m disappointed. In my eyes finding a solution for something is better than lying and letting the chips fall. Lying and deceit always destroys families and character.
I have a friend who’s going through and her main concern was I didn’t see the signs, why wasn’t a discernment present, where was the voice and the holy spirit of God.
Those in good relationship with God know a lie the moment it’s spoken, what do you do? Do you say, ‘Stop Lying? Or see how it plays out?
I believe she have may have heard or sense something but not at that moment. People give explanation of lies that sound convincing or we dismiss thinking not this person.
Why are we accepting by knowing when a person is lying but not saying anything , they will get upset, so what!
Lying tend to become addictive especially if you have gotten away with a few already. There is a tendency to want to lie every time you find yourself in a situation.
Lying hurts those you care about the most. When you tell a lie, your intention is never to hurt anyone but to instead get yourself out of a situation. However lies do hurt. By telling a loved one a lie, they will feel betrayed by you and it is this feeling of betrayal that can lead to a lack of communication, making them feel broken! Love doesn’t hurt but lies do.
The moment they start lying is it still Love? At least that’s what the other is thinking being spouse, child, friend etc
My prayer this morning was to have a new perspective on discernment.
When the Holy Spirit speaks loudly: listen and act.